‘How you do anything is how you do everything’ is the sentence I have been hearing a lot over the past week.
It is said you have to repeat an action for a certain amount of time in order to become a habit. But aparently with the repetiton with focus on one subject there’s an overspill to other parts of your life.
I hate waxing and doing pedi at home. In the past weeks I even decided not to go on dates becouse I wasn’t in the mood for waxing. And not being smooth is a natural contraception for me.
I know, men think this is complicating. It might as well be from their point of view. But the fact is that a woman needs to feel good on a date, relaxed if the date is getting hot. So,not waxing means no relax and no possibility of sex.
And I finally decided to wax. Took the wax strips, put them on the heater and started. Half way into it I didn’t feel like continue doing it.
And I finally decided to wax. Took the wax strips, put them on the heater and started. Half way into it I didn’t feel like continue doing it.Waxing isn’t as easy and unmessy as shown by the strips produers. I stepped into a shower. Ans suddenly it hit me. The tought in my mind ‘How you do anything is how you do everything’ OMG. It is just like this. I start something, then half way there my mind wonders somewhere else and I focus on the next thing, loosing interest for the other. And the other voice followed ‘Finish what you started’.
It was strong. I immediately stepped out of the tub and continue with waxing. I did it, all way through. Do you know how I felt? Smooth 🙂
So I decided to get rid of my next date prevention thing, pedicure. And I indulged myself with a pedicure. My feet feel like a baby’s butt. So now, finally, smooth and silky, I am ready to go on a date.
Great, one’d say. Just that there is this small factor to take into account. The guys that have been asking me out for the past few weeks, got tired of waiting. One even said I made him feel he was begging me to go out with him and he never begs.
That was a lesson for me. If you focus on why not, you miss out on opportunities.
And again the voice ‘How you do anything is how you do everything’ I am missing out on a lot of opportunities in life.
Well, that’s about to change.